FOR INDIVIDUALS
You could be feeling better sooner than you think
YOU KNOW SOMETHING ISN'T RIGHT.
You may be feeling lost, stuck, or endlessly self-critical, but can’t name exactly why. You know you’re hurting, that the pain has been going on for a long time, and trying to numb it, ignore it, or ‘just deal with it’ isn’t working.
And you’re feeling courageous enough to ask for help.
That’s impressive.
YOU DON'T HAVE THE ANSWERS YET. WE WILL FIND THEM TOGETHER.
You might see others getting into the kind of relationships or jobs you want, and you’re not sure why others get these things and you can’t. Or maybe there’s simply a sense that something is missing, and you don’t know what it is. You don’t want to feel down, lonely, or isolated anymore.
I CAN HELP.
My name is Jeff Fine, and I’ve been helping people change their lives and feel better for the past 30 years.
RESULTS ARE TYPICAL:
Clients regularly report, and you can expect:
- More connection through healthier partner relationships
- New and more nourishing friendships
- Executing ideas you’ve had for a long time (write a novel, open a business, move to another state) but just haven’t been able to mobilize to get there
- Feeling better about your body, a healthier relationship with food, which sometimes results in long-awaited weight loss, but does not need to.
- Going after and receiving promotions
- Gentler self-talk
HERE'S THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO KNOW.
There are good reasons for the way you have been doing things in your life.
In fact, at some point in your past, these strategies were likely an incredibly smart way to cope. Perhaps you were in an environment where it was risky to show emotion, or you got the message that there would be consequences for trying to depend on important people in your life.Your own answers will be as unique as you.
Over your lifetime, you’ve built up a series of coping strategies that at one point served you well, but have now become obstacles to achieving your goals.
There’s good news: You’re not “messed up” or “flawed.” You learned how to survive.
But now you’re coping with things in ways you don’t have to anymore. Perhaps no one ever helped you reflect on or question these strategies, or ask how they might be holding you back now.
Together, we will pinpoint where these strategies aren’t serving you anymore. This is important because what is concealed can’t be healed. Once you see them, you’ll likely feel energized and motivated to collaborate with me to learn how to choose a different path.
Relief will follow. It doesn’t have to take long.
Yes, sometimes you have to go slow to go fast. We go at your pace.
But the #1 reason people tell me they were not satisfied with their previous therapy experiences is that they weren’t getting anywhere. That their sessions were no different than venting to a friend over lunch.It is not uncommon for people to come to me and say, “Wow, I’ve gotten further in this session than in the entire year prior to this.”
It isn’t magic. We work better to clearly articulate your goals, the internal problems blocking you from achieving them, and then we lay out a blueprint to getting there. Everything is done with your permission, without judgment, and with kindness.
If that kind of change sounds good right now, let’s talk for 15 minutes.
No pressure or obligation with this call. Chances are, you have some questions. You’ll probably sense within a few minutes of chatting
whether or not we’ll be a good fit.